I’m Pretty Sure I Know Why Your Dog is Ignoring You
So I am pretty sure I have mentioned that I am back to teaching dog training classes at night.
I took a few years off, to play with my own dogs and compete.
Plus for a few years I lived in the country and not too many people want to make an hour or more trek to the country for dog training! Nor did I have the desire to make the same trek in the opposite direction to the city.
And, I am loving teaching again.
I think most of us dog trainers get a little burned out at some point.
It is easy to train a dog.
It is easy to train just about ANY dog, but humans are much more complicated.
This is why I don’t offer a guarantee (which is frowned upon by the APDT Association of Professional Dog Trainers) they make you sign something that says you won’t offer a guarantee when you go through the testing to get your certification.
It’s not that I won’t make sure that my clients are happy with the training they receive, but I can’t guarantee that they are doing what they should be doing at home!
People are so different, and if I may, so difficult!
Dogs never question or argue with me, once you know and understand the gift and game of communicating with an animal, they are easy to train!
I want to address why your dog is ignoring you! I think there are 2 major reasons.
#1. You Have Never Trained Him
The first is pretty obvious.
So many people have this weird belief that dogs automatically come out of the womb knowing our language.
Nothing is farther from the truth, although they are much more adept at learning our language than we are at learning theirs!
And, we are supposed to be the “critical thinking” mammals!
- If you have never taught your dog not to jump on people,
- If you have never taught your dog not to steal your underwear,
- If you have never taught your dog to stay off the counter,
- If you have never taught your dog to come when called,
- If you have never taught your dog leash manners and how to walk nicely on a leash,
- And if you have never taught your dog how to control his impulses…
Well, then he can’t be the dog you want until you actually teach him these things!
We don’t expect our children to learn without going to school and being taught, why then do we expect an animal, totally different from ourselves, to understand our commands and our language without teaching?
It is totally ridiculous if you break it down and think about it in those terms!
Remember in order for your dog to listen to your commands you must first work with him and teach him and BE CONSISTENT!
Inconsistency is as good as not training at all!
The second is miscommunication.
Although I often like to compare dogs to toddlers (because they are more alike than you would think), the truth is that they are a different species.
They communicate differently than we do.
Again, they are better at learning our language than we are at learning theirs but there is only so much that another animal who doesn’t speak our language is capable of learning; especially in new situations and under stress.
I get two distinct kinds of people:
The kind that almost never communicate to their dog (more on them in another article)
And the kind that never stop babbling to their dogs…
It seems the middle ground is hard to find.
So here is what it is like to be a dog with an owner who talks too much
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- Were you able to spot the “English” commands? Probably, because I think the eyes are better at catching an anomaly but it was probably a struggle. The commands, sit, down, heel and good boy are in there.
- How many of you just skipped the whole thing?
- Got frustrated?
- Or just gave up?
Don’t you figure your dog does the same thing?
So he pulls or sniffs or generally ignores you because 90% of the time he has no clue what you are talking about.
Add to that the fact that most people are painfully inconsistent and it makes training with these people even worse for the dog.
I Had a Small Argument with a Client Recently
He is struggling to teach his dog leash manners.
Yet, he wants to teach his dog right and left, along with stop and go, enough, here, back and a lot of other commands that I didn’t even understand the meaning of at the time because there was no real consistency.
Now, first off I must admit that dogs are perfectly capable of learning left and right commands this is how dogs perform in skijoring and carting etc. although the commands are simplified “Ghee and Haa” and usually pressure is applied to the side of the harness or bit you want the dog to turn toward.
I have even seen a few agility dogs who proficiently use the left and right command while running an agility course.
But when teaching that command are you teaching the dog using his body? Are you expecting the dog to learn left and right dependent on your body cues? Are you signaling with the corresponding arm and then which hand are you rewarding with? Do you always work the dog facing the same direction as you are facing, or can you teach him with his body toward you; essentially making his left your right?
Now you agility competitors know the answers to those questions but they are overwhelming at best.
Heck, I have a hard time remembering my left from my right sometimes and I am supposed to teach my dog?
It can certainly be done.
But it is also definitely an advanced obedience command.
You should have amazing obedience (or a mind just to work agility or carting etc.) before you decide to muddle your training with this command.
I was trying to explain that your dog should learn to read your body cues and when you turn your head to the left you teach him to take a step or two backward because you are indicating that you are turning left or toward him when he is in heel position.
If you are turning right you signal first with your head, telling your dog to speed up a few paces so that he can maintain eye contact and focus.
I want to give my dog commands and praise, but I don’t expect my dog to come with the knowledge of the English language.
I want to direct him, but I don’t need to teach him directional commands unless we are competing in a sport that requires them or uses them.
Too much information becomes babbling, and babbling is eventually ignored.
Dogs learn best by reading our body language.
And, that is how I want to help my dog by teaching him to watch my body’s cues. Head turning left means body will turn left soon, head turning right means body will turn right soon. He should learn to keep pace with me so that when I stop he stops and sits. When I say “heel” I want him to move out with me.
I can praise him when he succeeds and help him when he struggles.
But I want to make his foray into basic obedience as easy as possible by using a combination of my language and his language without muddying the waters with too much information that he simply doesn’t understand.
Once his basics are phenomenal, then you can begin to add more complex training to your regimen while still just giving him the basic information and praise that he needs to succeed!
I have been a professional dog trainer and pet sitter for over 20 years. I am a Certified Professional Dog Trainer, through the international Certification Counsel of Professional Dog Trainers. I have trained and worked with police, Schutzhund and personal protection dogs. I trained Assistance Dogs in a men’s prison and ran my own nonprofit organization to take adult dogs from shelters and to train them to assist children and adults with disabilities, at no charge to my clients. My nonprofit organization and I were nominated for several awards of merit and even made the front page of the Denver Post. I was a veterinary technician for many years, where I learned about all aspects of health and preventative medicine. I have trained and worked with exotic animals and cheetahs. I introduced a temperament testing program in my local shelter and sat on the board of directors. I volunteered with my dog “Mr. Snitch” and helped local children learn to read. I have attained obedience titles and several blue ribbons. I am constantly in search of ways to continue my education and excellence when it comes to animals, their behavior and their health.